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🤔Is It Sensory or Behavior?


Hey Reader!

Have you ever wondered, “Is my child’s behavior sensory or just behavior?”

You’re not alone. This is one of the most common questions I hear from parents, teachers, and caregivers. It’s natural to want to understand the root of a child’s actions, but here’s the truth: it’s rarely as simple as choosing one or the other.

Behavior and sensory processing are deeply connected. A child melting down in a noisy room might not be “acting out”—they could be overwhelmed by sensory input. On the other hand, a child constantly touching things may not need more sensory input but might be expressing emotional needs.

Let’s Shift the Question

Instead of asking, “Is it sensory or behavior?” consider these more helpful questions:

  • What environmental factors might be influencing this behavior?
  • Is my child seeking, avoiding, or struggling with sensory input?
  • How does this behavior relate to their emotions or relationships?

By digging deeper, we can better understand what our children are truly communicating—and how we can support them.

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Understanding Leads to Growth

It’s not about labeling behavior. It’s about recognizing the whole child and responding with patience and compassion. This shift in thinking can open the door to emotional growth, self-regulation, and stronger connections.

Curious to learn more? I explore further into this topic in my latest blog post, exploring how we can move beyond the “sensory vs. behavior” mindset.

👉 Read the Full Blog Post Here​

Let’s continue asking better questions and nurturing our children with the support they need.

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Warmly,

Aya Porté

Occupational Therapist & Founder, Koi Wellness

113 Cherry St #92768, Seattle, WA 98104-2205
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